Open Letter To The Prime Minister
I am writing to urge you to respond to the results of the current referendum on what has come to be called the anti-smacking legislation.
Many attempts have been made to dismiss the current referendum before it is even held. The referendum gives an opportunity for the public to speak. Their views must be respected.
Like many New Zealanders, I have been shocked by how many parents have already been unfairly treated under this law. This has been documented independently in the media. A list of ‘smacking cases’ can be found on the Family First website (http://www.familyfirst.org.nz). I urge everybody to read through the list of cases. We can be sure that they are just the tip of the iceberg.
As if the pressures of bringing up children in today’s society were not tough enough, parents now have every action second-guessed by others.
The current legislation gives carte blanche to any interfering busybody to judge the behaviour of parents as they struggle to fulfil their responsibility to protect their children and demonstrate the boundaries of acceptable behaviour to them. Most damagingly, the legislation drives a wedge between parent and child.
When this legislation was first proposed by the Labour Government, National MP Chester Burrows came up with a sensible amendment which would have provided clear guidelines on what is, and is not, appropriate discipline by the parent, by setting a well-defined and low hurdle for the application of reasonable force by a parent.
That sensible proposal has been picked up by my ACT colleague, John Boscawen, as a private member’s bill. If the public strongly vote against the current legislation in the referendum, I urge you to introduce John Boscawen’s private member’s bill as a Government bill.
One of the main reasons the Labour Government was so decisively rejected by New Zealanders last year was that people were sick of being told how to live their lives by politicians and bureaucrats. The current legislation is the worst manifestation of the attitude that we, as politicians, know best, and it would be a tragedy if, six months into government, a nanny state tendency emerged once again in ignoring the clear wish of the public.
While any of us may disapprove of the way other people behave, including bringing up their children, that does not give us the right to make them criminals for behaving that way, unless their behaviour is demonstrably causing harm.
I urge you and the National Party to listen to the public and respond properly to the result of this referendum.
Hon Rodney Hide
ACT Party Leader

